I like to read the Star wednesday star two especially Youth XxX section. Today's topic is a girl expressed her dissatisfaction over her dad for not allowing her to go out with friends.She felt that her relationship with friends is getting worse and most of her friends couldn't click with her anymore.
This is a good question and I would like to share my thought with fellow friends here especially youngsters.
I have a strict dad. I mean back in few years he was very strict to us but now no more. I really like the way he brought us up regardless of how busy he is in kitchen most of the time. Each time our friend ajak us to go out, we can but got criteria. We can't go out later than 11pm. If not, he will go and pick us home.
From my perspective, of course paisehness maximum right? Nope, I don't. I am big enough to think. If my friends so care for me, they will come and look up for me. My friends are not lim teh friends, they don't come to me when needing me or having problem. But they are by my side in times of need. I seldom meet them probably they are not in hometown.
Besides that, all dad cares is our safety. It's their responsibility to take good care of us. Just try to put yourself under their shoes and you will actually understand why they are not allowing you to go out most of the time. At the same time, tell them your need. Talk to them with good manner, don't shout and yell at them. They are your parents after all.
Don't get fed up or emotional if you're not allowed to go out with friends k. Everything can be solved. :)
5 comments:
ya lor ya lor! My parents used to be very strict last time!! But things have changed quite a bit since I run away from home for 2 years then came back =x *blush*
p/s: we never quarrel tho! I just left the house =x
dear Mikey!
Indeed i faced the same problem when i was a teenager. I was brought up in a very traditional chinese way. Respect the elderly, never answer back when scolded, not allowed to go out at night, no girlfriend until started university, which most of it i find it ridiculous as a rebellious guy. But it all makes sense to me now. All those strict lifestyle within which i lived was not to torture me, but instead, its because he cared. Now that i am a father, i see his point of good discipline and conduct.
Hmm...my parents seldom forbid me from going out as long as I'm back in time. :D
haha thankfully my parents trust me =)
Flik Teoh : huh bro, you really do? Luckily you grew up and be good man
Wan : yea, it's time for us to take care of parents and our family.
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